Occasions
St Mark’s is a wonderful place to celebrate a baptism or wedding, or to remember a loved one at their funeral.
We are honoured to journey with you through life’s most meaningful milestones.
Baptisms
Baptism is a joyful welcome into the Christian faith, held during our Sunday morning Eucharist. Surrounded by the worshipping community, the newly baptised are embraced into the family of God.
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In any one year a number of people are baptised at St Mark’s Church. Most of them are infants but we also baptise adults. Baptism is a joyful occasion. It marks a new beginning in a person’s life when they come under the Lordship of Christ and his reign of love.
If you feel called to be baptised or to have your child baptised, please fill in our online baptism form using the link above.
We look forward to arranging a time when a priest can meet with you to talk about this desire and arrange a time for you and/or the child in your care to be baptised and made a member of Christ’s body, the Church.
Baptism is one of two sacraments recognised by the Anglican Church, the other being Eucharist or Holy Communion. They are rites that were commanded by Christ for his followers to continue practicing. As far as baptism is concerned, in Matthew’s Gospel the risen Christ declared that all authority in heaven and earth had been given him (Matt 28:18) and commanded his disciples to…
[g]o therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptising them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything that I have commanded you. And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age. (Matt 28:19-20).
In the case of the Eucharist, the Gospel of Luke records Jesus commanding his disciples to continue breaking bread and drinking wine in the way he had done at his last supper, in remembrance of him (Luke 22:18-20). Saint Paul, in his First letter to the Corinthians, reports on the same commandment:
For I received from the Lord what I also handed on to you, that the Lord Jesus on the night when he was betrayed took a loaf of bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and said, ‘This is my body that is for you. Do this in remembrance of me.’ In the same way he took the cup also, after supper, saying, ‘This cup is the new covenant in my blood. Do this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me.’ For as often as you eat this bread and drink the cup, you proclaim the Lord’s death until he comes. (1 Corinthians 11:23-26)
Sacraments convey God’s grace to people in a special way. They are, as the Catechism in the 1989 Prayer Book describes them, ‘outward and visible signs of inward and spiritual grace, given by Christ to the Church.’ (p.932). The same Catechism goes on to define grace as ‘God’s freely-given love for people, forgiving sins, enlightening minds, stirring hearts and strengthening wills. Through grace we are given strength to live as loving sons and daughters of God.’ (p.932) The outward and visible sign in the sacrament of baptism is ‘[w]ater, by which a person is baptised in the name of the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.’ (p.933) The inward and spiritual grace that baptism conveys is ‘[t]he gift of union with Christ in his death and resurrection, birth into God’s family the Church, forgiveness of sins, and new life in the Holy Spirit.’ (p.933) Drawing upon metaphors from New Testament Scripture, the Catechism describes three effects of Baptism, namely, that by it ‘we are made children of God, members of Christ’s body the Church, and heirs of the Kingdom of God.’ (p.933)
Baptism initiates a person into the Church. Through it a person becomes a Christian which is why the rite is often referred to as Christening. This also explains the traditional location of baptismal fonts at the back of the church where people enter the building – it symbolises the idea that we enter the Church of God through the waters of baptism, through which we become part of a community that is nourished by Christ, Sunday by Sunday, with the bread and wine of the Eucharist served from the front of the church.
The intention of Anglican ministers when they baptise someone is that the candidate will become not just a member of the Anglican Church, but of the Church throughout the world, which is manifest in many different forms– from Orthodox and Roman Catholic to Brethren, Quaker and many more besides.
What is required of people seeking baptism is their renouncement of evil and commitment to ‘turn from sin to Christ as the Way, the Truth and the Life.’ (p.933) Infants and young children who are brought to be baptised by their parents or guardians are not in a position to make this commitment for themselves, but the Anglican Church believes that it is sufficient for their parents or guardians – and godparents – to make this commitment on their child’s behalf:
When infants are brought for Baptism, the Church acknowledges that children can share in the community of faith, enter the new Covenant, and experience the renewing spirit of God. As a response to baptism such children are called to profess faith in Christ for themselves and to receive the laying on of hands in Confirmation. (p.933)
Confirmation is a rite that is linked to baptism. It is normally performed once a baptised person has arrived at a point where they feel ready to make an explicit, public (in church) commitment to Christ. The rite can only be conferred by a Bishop. It used to be the case that only those who were confirmed were allowed to receive the bread and wine of Communion, but that is no longer the case. Now baptism is understood as making one a full member of the Church and children may, at their parent’s discretion, receive Communion from the day of their baptism.
For further information on baptism please click here.
Confirmations
Confirmation is a profound step in affirming your faith and commitment to Christ. This special service, led by the bishop during our patronal festival, deepens your connection to the church and strengthens you on your spiritual journey.
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All those baptised, aged 16 or over and not yet confirmed, may choose to be confirmed in the Anglican Church. Confirmation is done with laying on of hands by the bishop, either within the Sunday service or in a distinct confirmation service at the cathedral.
The confirmands are welcomed to profess and re-affirm their faith, to be strengthened for the work of God’s kingdom. At this time of commitment, God’s gifts of grace are re-kindled in us, and we celebrate our faith and calling. You can read the reflections of one or two of our recently confirmed here.
If you are considering being confirmed, we invite you to approach one of our priests, either in person or via the link above.
Weddings
Marriage is a sacred covenant, celebrated here in the beauty and reverence of the Anglican liturgy. Couples seeking to marry at St Mark’s can expect the vicar to guide them through the ceremony, reflecting God’s love in their union.
360 degree view of St Mark’s Church
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St Mark’s Church is a popular wedding venue. Part of that popularity has to do with the traditional design of the church, with its evocative Victorian-Gothic decoration, a very capable pipe organ, and a long central aisle for bridal processions. But there is something else that draws people to this church and we like to think that that is a couple’s desire to commit to one another totally in love in the same way that Christ has committed himself to people in this parish, generation after generation, bringing meaning, hope and joy to those who call St Mark’s their spiritual home. Through your marriage here you become part of that mission of love in the world, and we would welcome your ongoing connection with the parish – through the baptism of your children, for instance, or the celebration of other important events in your life as a couple.
St Mark’s welcomes couples who seek Christian Marriage in the Anglican Tradition. One of the partners to the marriage needs to be baptised. This baptism does not have to have been conducted in the Anglican Church, but it does need to have been performed in the standard way – with water, in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. If neither you nor your partner are baptised, we are happy to talk with you about the sacrament of baptism (please see the section on baptism) and the possibility of you being baptised.
If you would like to be married at St Mark’s Church please contact the Parish Office in the first instance (telephone 09 520 2258 or email office@stmarks.org.nz ) and we will arrange for you to meet, as a couple, with one of the parish priests. S/he will talk with you about your relationship so far, the reason why you want to be married here, and will provide you with information about the wedding services we offer. If s/he is satisfied that everything is order, you will be invited to book your wedding and pay a deposit to hold that booking. St Mark’s has a well-appointed Parish Hall that is often booked by wedding couples for their reception. To view the inside of the church and hall please see the links above.
Funerals
We provide compassionate care and support as you honour the life of a loved one. Rooted in the hope of the resurrection, our funeral services offer comfort and reflection through Anglican traditions.
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For Christians, as for everyone else, the death of a loved one is a sad occasion, but it does not strip life of meaning or cause a sense of hopelessness because we know that God is more powerful than death and has demonstrated that specifically through the resurrection of Jesus Christ.
We are happy to take the funeral of anyone at St Mark’s – regardless of their beliefs – and we endeavour to be as sensitive as possible to their values and understanding of life and death. That said, we are a church, and we reserve the right to express the church’s faith in the funeral service, to pray to God on behalf of those who are grieving and to commend to God’s keeping the person who has died.
A funeral at Saint Mark’s will offer comfort to family, friends and other mourners, the commendation to God of the person who has died, and the committal of the body for burial or cremation.
We will work with you to ensure the service honours your loved one in a personalised and meaningful way.
Very frequently the refurbished Parish Hall is used as a venue for the reception that normally follows a Funeral Service.
More information on the process of booking the church and hall, and the costs involved, is available from the Parish Office (telephone 09 520 2258 or email office@stmarks.org.nz)